I think Life is trying to teach me a lesson about decisions. You hear the phrase "stuck between a rock and a hard place" all the time. Why does that happen? Why do we as humans constantly have to make one hard choice after another? What do you do when your heart tells you one thing but your brain is telling you another? How do you make a choice that could drastically effect some one's future? I used to wish that I had a way to see what my life would be like had I went back in time and chose the opposite choice of any given situation. Yesterday I came to the conclusion that I am better off not knowing what could have been. Right now I am facing some very tough decisions and I am completely baffled at what to do. I have tried making lists of the positives and negatives of each choice and it still hasn't cleared anything up. The shit part of making these decisions is that if you make the wrong choice you can never take it back, it's permanent.
My question for all of you lovelies are...
What is your decision making process? How do you figure out what path is the right one?
I think you have put nearly the hardest question known to man kind out to us Jaz.... making decisions, debating on rights, wrongs, morals and values is what we have to do on a daily basis.... I have often been heard asking life for a hand book to explain the paths, guide the way and make it all go "the right way" it does not exist, it will not exist, and decision making varies for every person, every day and in every situation.
ReplyDeleteyou just need to be 100% sure that your decisions or paths are right for you, do not have any implications you will "regret" in the future, are moral and uphold your values! easy right! :P not so much, but something we do every day ! :D
I agree with Marly! That's a really tough question. I always try to weigh the pros and cons, but mostly I try to trust my gut feeling. Follow your heart. Sometimes the answers take time to reveal themselves. I often look for signs that the universe is trying to tell me something. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteThanks ladies. You have no idea how much that helps. :)
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